Oh, tardiness.
A marking distinction of the black community! What we call it differs across many black cultures, but some notable terms are BPT (Black People Time) and African Time.
But what if I told you that the culture of lateness is disrespectful? Not only to others, but to yourself. Arriving early to your commitments is a form of self love, self-respect, and an indication of a prosperous future.
Believe it or not, arriving early gives you extra time, and that is absolutely something we all need.
I used to be late to everything, every time. Whether it was work, class, or an event — I was late. As I entered my destinations tardily, disorganized, and sweaty from rushing, I felt so guilty because everyone was already there. I felt insecure and self conscious because of my own wrongdoing. “Sorry I’m late” became my slogan. This continued on for years until I discovered that these were not feelings I wanted to have for the rest of my life. So I took control and made a change.
Here Are 5 Reasons Why It’s Important To Be Early:
- You will reduce the amount of stress and anxiety in your life.
- You will develop more trust and respect for yourself.
- You will feel more “in control” of your day.
- You will be more prepared for what the day has to come.
- You will be inclined to make more positive decisions throughout the day.
Time is a commodity, what you choose to do with it determines your life.
