Don’t be afraid to ask yourself; How did I play a part in this
situation going the way it did?
When you blame others for everything, your brain
subconsciously gives everyone credit for what occurs in
your life, good and bad. If you take responsibly more often,
(even for the less desirable things), it gives you the
subconscious power to believe that if you can create an
unpleasant situation, you can then easily create something
desirable.
How To Do It:
1. Stop Taking Things Personally
Refuse the all-too-common human theme that the world
revolves around you. The negative words and actions of
others are generally not about you, they are reflections of
their inner world, which you are not a part of. When you
hear something that triggers an emotional response, slow
down and remind yourself that it is not about you.
Removing yourself from the equation by refusing to take
things personally is a method that encourages an attitude of
accountability.
2. Build Consistency
Leading a consistent, routined, and disciplined lifestyle is
important if you are striving to take more accountability
over your life. Being consistent with your life enables you to
easily recount your steps so you can avoid confusion,
disorganization, and internal conflict. Having a routine
makes you trust yourself more, count on yourself more, all
which results in attaining strong manifesting power.
3. Learn How To Apologize
Saying sorry is an art form that makes a world of difference
in relationships with others and also yourself. Apologizing
means you accept fault by taking responsibility for what
you did wrong and are willing to make amends. Being a
good “apologizer” means that you are skilled in
accountability, and most likely you’d be the type of person
that manifests plentifully.
How To Apologize Properly:
Step 1. State what you did wrong in detail (“I lied to you
about where I was on Friday night”).
Step 2. State why it was wrong (“I was wrong because I
should tell the truth to someone I love”).
Step 3. Apologize and ask for forgiveness (“I am sorry, please
forgive me”).
Step 4. Change your behaviour (the best apology is changed
behaviour, make sure not to make the same mistake twice).